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Sexuality and celibacy are two concepts that are often intertwined with spirituality in different ways. They are two opposing ends of the spectrum. Sexuality is a powerful force that drives us towards physical pleasure, while celibacy involves abstaining from sexual activity altogether. For some, celibacy may lead to a heightened sense of spiritual awareness and a deeper connection to a higher power. In many religious communities celibacy is encouraged as a means of devoting oneself more fully to the divine.
On the other hand, sexuality is often seen as a means of connecting with the divine, as well as a source of pleasure and enjoyment in life in spirituality. Many spiritual beliefs like Tantra, Taoism, Hinduism, and Wicca view sexuality as a gift from a higher power, and therefore see it as something that should be respected and cherished. When practiced with mindfulness and a sense of reverence, sexuality can be a powerful tool for spiritual growth and transformation. Tantra, for example, is a spiritual practice that incorporates sexuality as a means of connecting with the divine.
While water fasting may seem unrelated to this topic, there are some similarities that can be drawn. If you have never tried water fasting, it is a practice that you do not eat anything and abstain from food. Many experts and studies claim water fasting have profound positive impact on the metabolism and physical health.
Like water fasting, celibacy involves a deliberate choice to abstain from a particular activity for a set period, with the intention of achieving a particular goal. Both require a certain level of discipline, focus, and commitment. They both have a cleansing effect and purification on the body, mind, and spirit. They both helps for self-discipline and personal growth.
But as you can guess, I would not recommend sticking to either of them for too long :) Both may result with serious lack of the essential building blocks of our human experience.
Similarly, sexuality can be compared to a good diet, as both are natural desires that require moderation and balance to maintain overall health and wellbeing. Both provide vitality, pleasure, and joy. Though our diets might change overtime, in my perspective a moderation is the golden key.
I had my times where I binged on sugar though I felt terrible.
But I also had my times where I practiced water fasting. I benefited greatly from it. I felt rejuvenated, cleansed, and energized. It gave me a boost to stick to a healthy, balanced diet.
The effects of sexuality and celibacy on spirituality can vary greatly depending on the individual, their intentions, and the context in which they are practiced.
Sexuality and celibacy are not inherently good or bad in and of themselves. It is the intention and context in which they are practiced that determines their effects on spirituality. It is also worth remembering that, over consumption of anything is deprivation in disguise. For some individuals, a healthy and balanced sexual life may be an integral part of their spiritual practice, while for others, celibacy may be the most effective means of achieving their spiritual goals.